He's Just Not That Into You

He’s Just Not That Into You—based on a popular episode of Sex and the City—is tough love advice for otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn’t like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. It’s the best relationship advice you’ll ever receive.

For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.

He’s afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he’s intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.

Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that—despite good intentions—you’re wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they’d like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.

The truth may be, He’s just not that into you.

Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, “You're not the one.” But their actions absolutely show how they feel.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo’s wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, “I’m in love with you and want to be with you.”

He’s Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman’s night table. It knows you’re a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start “figuring him out,” consider the glorious thought that maybe, He’s just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.

He's Just Not That Into You - Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo Summary

He's Just Not That Into You is a self-improvement book written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo that was published in 2004 and later adapted into a film by the same name in 2009. It was a New York Times bestseller and was featured on The Oprah Winfrey Show...

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On point5 star

Perfect 55


I really liked it.5 star

I thought it was very useful and some things did apply to me. I loved the way it was written like FAQ in a cool format :). Highly recommend to all the single ladies. 55


Awesome5 star

Really great book! Would have saved me so much time and effort had I read it a few years ago. Very encouraging and empowering! 55


Five Stars5 star

Every woman from age 18 and up should read this book. I finally GET IT. Thank you. What a relief. 55


Good read4 star

Easy, entertaining reading. 45


Amazing!5 star

This has to be the best book I have ever read! Amazing job and so well written. Humor meets reality!!! A must read! 55

Jasmine Eppes

Hit Home More Than I Thought It Would5 star

This book was eye-opening. It was so simple that it made sense. It really made me think back on some of my "failed relationships" you could say. It also made me think about how I can stop these recurring guys that are really not interested in me from entering my life. This was right on time! 55


Good!!!5 star

I saw the movie first! And even tho is a good adaptation as always the book is way more better. It was my fiancé who actually encourage me to read the book and share it with my single and no single friends. Every woman should read this book :) 55

Needed that

He's just not that into you5 star

Great book. Easy to read, funny, and insightful. 55

Lulu's momma

Best book ever!5 star

Honestly the best self help book in my library! I have it paperback, audio book, podcast & iPod library 55

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